Jing: The Program is closing tomorrow at midnight. Click here for details.
Here’s a massive, gigantic, game-changing secret every man should know:
Women care far less about how attractive you are than how attractive they feel around you.
I’ll say that one more time, for clarity, because it’s important:
She doesn’t care how attractive you are, she cares how attractive she feels when she’s with you.
(side note: a similar principle applies to men; we are most attracted to women who make us feel like the strongest, most capable version of ourselves)
But here’s the trick…
Most men try to make women feel attractive with needy compliments, gross pandering, and general ass-kissing.
That stuff doesn’t make her feel attractive, it makes her feel creeped out (and probably a bit sorry for you).
Because attraction is not demonstrated by the words you say, or the gifts you give, or the asses you kiss.
It is demonstrated by your energy.
The same way two strong magnets are drawn powerfully together, while two weak magnets struggle just to stay connected…
…Your energy (ie. your sexual polarity) is what draws women towards you — or, drives them away.
Energy doesn’t lie, and you can’t fake it:
If she doesn’t feel a powerful pull…
If your energy is weak, flimsy, or uncertain…
…Nothing you say or do will make her feel attractive around you, or attracted to you.
Which is the kiss of death to a relationship — or, your hopes for a relationship.
That’s why some men can say all the wrong things, behave like dickheads, and still have women draped all over them:
Because women care far more about your energy than they do about your looks or words or actions.
It’s also why, in the mating game, Jing reins supreme:
Jing, as the generative force that powers your sexual energy, powers the forces of attraction within you.
Strong Jing = strong attractive force, while weak Jing = weak attractive force.
Which makes building, harnessing, and mastering Jing a damn-near-cheat-code to attraction, love, and relationships.
We’re closing Jing: The Program tomorrow at midnight, so if you’re interested, jump in now.
Tonight, I’ll share Part 2 of this lesson:
Specifically, how it applies to the bedroom.
(yep, we’re going there…)
Stay tuned.
– T
P.S. Today’s email was a (small) sneak peek at what you’ll learn inside the two bonus classes that come with Jing:
1. Mastering Your Partner (aka. “Getting Good”)
How to radically enhance internal pleasure for you and your partner, and access the deeper dimensions of human sexuality most don’t know exist.
2. Mastering Love & Relationships
Five hours of recordings from our retreat, where I taught my complete philosophy on love, relationships, and attraction — perfect for listening on walks, while driving, working out, etc.
(these were a huge crowd favorite, and you’ll get access to them immediately after joining Jing)
