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Earlier today, we dropped a huge secret every man should know:
Women care far less about how attractive you are than how attractive they feel around you.
So, as promised, here’s part 2 of that secret…
…This time, for the bedroom.
Here goes:
Turning you on turns her on.
The more pleasure you experience because of her, the more powerful and attractive she will feel when she’s with you, and the deeper her own pleasure will be.
(this works both ways, FYI — enthusiasm is a powerful aphrodisiac…)
And so, the counter-intuitive secret to pleasing your partner is to stop obsessing over pleasing her, and focus on your own pleasure instead.
Sounds strange, I know:
But she can only relax and let go once she feels you relax and let go…
…Which only happens when you let go of your anxieties about pleasing her, and sink into the genuine feelings of pleasure she ignites within you — on all levels:
Physical, energetic, emotional, mental, visual, kinaesthetic, tactile, even spiritual.
The more ways she feels you experiencing pleasure, the more ways she will experience pleasure.
Your partner is a mirror, after all:
And sexuality is about experiencing each other.
So your experience is her experience.
Your pleasure is her pleasure.
And, vice-versa.
Of course, it should go without saying:
Being a selfish prick who pops off in 30 seconds, rolls over, grabs a sandwich and calls an Uber isn’t gonna win you many fans.
So rule #1, as always, is don’t be an idiot.
But once you’ve accomplished that, just focus on enjoying yourself, so she can let go and focus on enjoying herself.
If you’re interested in this topic, we’ll cover a lot more of it in the bonus class that comes with the Jing program, called:
Mastering Your Partner (aka. “Getting Good”)
It’s gonna be a wild one.
I hope we see you there 🙂
– T
P.S. Today’s emails were a (small) sneak peek at what you’ll learn inside the two bonus classes that come with Jing:
1. Mastering Your Partner (aka. “Getting Good”)
How to radically enhance internal pleasure for you and your partner, and access the deeper dimensions of human sexuality most don’t know exist.
2. Mastering Love & Relationships
Five hours of recordings from our retreat, where I taught my complete philosophy on love, relationships, and attraction — perfect for listening on walks, while driving, working out, etc.
(these were a huge crowd favorite, and you’ll get access to them immediately after joining Jing)
Here’s where you can join us today…
And, here’s how much time is left before we close up shop:
